Unlock the Confidence to Show Up Unapologetically in Your Business

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The subconscious shift that changed everything, for real this time.

Running an online business? Here’s the truth no one tells you:

It’s not your strategy that’s holding you back.

It’s your subconscious.

Business is 20% strategy and 80% mindset.

Which means, with the right mindset, any strategy will work — when you show up consistently (and as you!).

If you're showing up inconsistently, second-guessing every post, feeling invisible online, or downplaying your offers, it’s not because you're not cut out for this.

It’s because your subconscious is running the show… and it’s been programmed to keep you small. To keep you “safe.”

Let’s fix that.

In this post, I’m diving into:

• Why your subconscious is the hidden block to your success

• How it’s quietly shaping every move you make in business

• What you can do right now to rewire your mind for confidence + visibility

• The exact framework that helped me stop hiding and start owning it

My Journey: From Hiding to Magnetic

When I started my business, I was terrified of being seen.

I obsessed over fonts, fiddled with Canva for hours, rewrote captions 13 times, and still felt like I wasn’t “expert” enough to take up space.

I wasn’t lacking skills.

I was carrying subconscious stories telling me I’d be judged. That I’d fail. That people wouldn’t take me seriously. What if my family saw?

“No one wants to hear what I have to say.”

“The market is too saturated, so why bother?”

Sound familiar?

Once I learned how to reprogram those stories, everything shifted. I didn’t become a different person — I just stopped letting fear run the show.

And you can too.

Still Think the Market Is Too Saturated?

Here’s a little stat snack for your brain:

There are 2.35 billion active users on Instagram alone.

Only ~1.4% of them are actively creating content to sell something.

And of those? An even smaller percentage are showing up as their full, unapologetic selves.

Translation?

The market isn’t saturated — it’s underwhelming.

Most people are blending in. You? You’re about to stand out.

Because only YOU can tell your story the way you do. No one else has your energy, your story, or your heart.

So stop playing small because “someone else is already doing it.”

No one else is doing it like you.

We don’t gatekeep here.

What Is the Subconscious Mind (and Why Should Online Business Owners Care)?

Your subconscious is basically the operating system of your brain.

95% of what you do is driven by it.

Every hesitation before hitting post, every launch panic spiral, every time you talk yourself out of raising your prices?

(every deleted post or “rebrand” moment too…)

That’s not logic.

That’s programming.

You're running an outdated system that keeps crashing… and here’s the kicker:

Most of that programming came from other people.

Parents, teachers, society, all installed before you even knew what a bank account was (before age 7!).

You’re building a business based on old stories.

You're building a business like a 7-year-old.

No wonder it feels like you’re giving it your all… and still hearing crickets.

But it doesn’t have to.

Why You Might Be “Doing All the Right Things” and Still Not Growing

Your subconscious doesn’t care what you want.

It only cares what feels safe.

Studies show subconscious programming dates all the way back to caveman days (wild, right?). So if being visible, making money, or showing up boldly ever felt unsafe, your brain will quietly sabotage it.

This shows up as:

• Jumping from one strategy to another

• Sudden success… then everything falls apart

• Feeling like you're working 24/7, while others seem to manifest it easily

• Procrastination, fear of being “too much,” undercharging, quitting too soon

These aren’t flaws.

They’re protective patterns, and they live in your subconscious.

The good news?

You can rewire them. The framework inside Unfuckwithable goes deep into this, reprogramming your subconscious and regulating your nervous system so that confidence becomes your baseline, not your battle.

But let’s take a sneak peak now.

How to Start Reprogramming Your Mind for Business Confidence

Let’s keep it simple and actionable:

1. Catch the Thought

Notice what comes up when you try to take bold action.

Things like:

“No one’s going to buy from me.”

“This post sounds cringe.”

“I need to be more polished.”

Those are subconscious beliefs.

You can’t change what you don’t see.

2. Reframe It in Real-Time

Talk to yourself like you would your bestie:

→ “This post might help someone.”

→ “My story is valuable. Only I can tell it.”

→ “There are people waiting for what I offer.”

Even if it feels fake — say it anyway. It won’t stay fake for long.

3. Use Subconscious-Level Tools

• Subliminal audios while you work or scroll (they rewire quietly in the background)

• Visualizations (I use the ones inside Unfuckwithable, they were life-changing)

• Gratitude practices to anchor into abundance

• Evidence walls to train your brain to see that it’s already working

This isn’t fluff. It’s neuroscience. (Hey neuroplasticity 👋)

The more your brain sees proof that visibility and success are safe, the more it’ll support you.

Want to Go Deeper? This is the framework that Changed Everything for Me

Unfuckwithable is the space I used to finally unravel the fear, judgment, and self-doubt keeping me small.

It’s not your typical mindset course.

It’s a private podcast-style experience that helps you rewire your subconscious so showing up online becomes natural, not terrifying.

Inside, you’ll get:

• Access to subconscious reprogramming tools

• My go-to visualizations

• Community of like-minded women walking the same path

• Teachings from a multi-7-figure mentor

• Optional affiliate access (if you want to monetize as you grow)

This is the work that changed my entire story.

It’s what helped me stop playing a character in my own life and start showing up unapologetically as me.

So if you know your business deserves to be built from your truth, not fear, and you’re ready to embody the confident, magnetic leader you already are…

This is your next step.

Built for women in the make-money space, but the shifts inside Unfuckwithable apply to anyone ready to stop playing small and start owning it.

You don’t need more strategy.

You need to feel safe being seen.

Unfuckwithable is the bridge.

Ready to become Unfuckwithable?